My new Girlfriend is in USA and jobless, wants to make money by doing Live Cam thing, what should i do?
She's Japanese studying english in the USA. She doesn't speak English well,, she's just a beginner. She told me she wants a job and said somthing about "Do you know Live cams?" .."But i just do chat.." meaning she won't do video. Oh but i dont' trust her though. Maybe she's a nympho girl ?? But when we do voice chat it's always nice friendly chat. I help her with english and we just have normal conversations in English and Japanese. She doesn't look like she's sex crazed or something. Could she really be worse than i she makes me think? Perhaps she has even done this kind of Virtual Sex before. I actually met her before when she used to be in Japan 1 year ago. She doesn't know that because it's been long time ago and she doesn't know that in the Chat program we use , we can View History..meaning we can see the chat's we've had. Well, that time in 2008, she had a different screen name and when she met me she asked something like "What's your cock size?" This has me thinking that she did sex voice chats with people since long time ago. I'm kind of disappointed because we just met 2 weeks ago and she seeems really nice and never talks about any sex so she had me thinking she was a nice girl. But i'm starting to worry. What should i do? Is it totally ok for her to do Live cams..or should i tell her that if she's going to do that, i don't want to ever meet her again. By the way, we have a long distance relationship. We haven't met face to face but we will meet in 3 months. She's in the USA close to my city but she's just an international student doing homestay so she can't travel till the semester ends. What to do? I'm 29 she's 24. Sherry i'm not white and i'm poor. I told her this already and she still said it's ok
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repost this with a more dramatic name and you will get more answers. "My Japanese girlfriend wants to do Live Cam for money...isn't that prostitution? Please help!" or something. But I'll answer here...hmmm...I think she does do the video thing because Japanese are known for being reallly wild, but we stereotype asians as being polite, shy, and quiet...which is far from the truth! The girls act sweet because they have the "lolita" culture...but that culture there also has high school girls going on dates with old men for money and much more... I think you should speak with her about this, but she might still not be open about it since you two have only been seeing each other for a couple weeks. Also...I studied abroad and u can always visit her if she lives so close plus if she is here for the semester only, then she will go back to japan...not stay here....or at least not for long... Its a well-known fact that white guys (im assuming u r) are a status symbol for asian women and even tho she might like u...she is trying to uphold that stereotype of the good, sweet, shy asian girl although she needs money...but since she is doing homestay...i bet the money is just for clothes and makeup and stuff since the family is supposed to provide free shelter and food and stuff. Yea...^^ How about YOU send her some money (just a little)...if u trust her.
